all the way to egregious infidelity,” he said Cannon said typically there are underlying issues and suggests the use of licensed mental health therapists to start the recovery process.

“If someone is acting out in a way that feels out of control to them sexually, it’s usually caused by something else, some combination of mental health issues like anxiety, ADHD, OCD,” he said.

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“If you don’t have a problem saying no to things, you don’t understand why people keep doing things that obviously are a problem for them,” he continued.

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Elvina Lui added another common assumption is sex addicts lack moral standards and are perverts who are not capable of feeling love or remorse.

“While all addictions affect and eventually destroy a person’s personality and integrity, sex addiction is not a worse addiction, and sex addicts most certainly are capable of feeling love and remorse,” she said.

From movies like “Shame” and reality TV shows like “Bad Sex,” to the Tiger Woods cheating scandal, sex addiction has been a hot topic for decades, but do we really know what sex addiction is?

To answer this question and separate fact from fiction, we’ve gathered Dr.

Joe Kort, a sex and relationship therapist certified by The American Board of Sexology and listed in the directory, said while most people chalk up sex addiction as someone who can’t control his or her sexual urges, sex is not the main motivator.

Sex addiction, according to Kort, is more about pain, trauma and loss of control, among other things, and is not something to be taken lightly.

“People make jokes about ‘Oh, I’d like to have that addiction,’ but it’s not funny,” he said.

AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor of Sex Therapy Dr.

Neil Cannon agreed with Kort, stating sex addiction is a cultural label that is not clinically accurate.

“It gets used for everything from someone who masturbates twice a year to somebody who masturbates and looks at porn 40 hours a week…